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Old 06-02-2001, 11:03 PM
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I have to know-guys always joke around saying that they'd love to catch a girl in the act or watch a girl masturbate. I reason that this might work when watching a porno flick, but how many guys are eager to walk in on their girlfriend masturbating? Most girls would rather not walk in on their guys as far as I can tell.

What do you think?
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Old 06-02-2001, 11:19 PM
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I love watching my SO masturbate. It's one of the most erotic and intimate exepriences IMO. Sharing such a private thing with your lover is not only special but highly erotic as it reeks of sexuality and speaks volumes about the person in question.

As for walking in on her, well that's a bit more difficult as they can hide it so much easier than, say, a guy with a throbbing erection though I've done it before, just as I've been titillated by whispered stories from the girl tellign me she just had a quick wank behind those bushes over there and no-one here at this picnic noticed a thing.


Mmmmmmmmm.
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Old 06-02-2001, 11:20 PM
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I'm not sure how I would feel walking in on my hypothetical girlfriend masturbating, but I can tell you that the thought of a woman masturbating is definitly a turn-on. I suppose this is because for a lot of guys any interested woman is a turn-on, and someone who is masturbating sure is interested in something.
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Old 06-03-2001, 01:47 AM
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Extremely erotic, yes.

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Old 06-03-2001, 03:45 AM
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Two of my fondest sexual memories are from the lady I dated in NC, who, while I was laying atop her doing what comes naturally, wedged her hand between our bellies and began rubbing her clitoris. That sensation and knowledge of what she was doing was a mind-blower.

Then the most recent young lady in GA, on our first bedroom encounter, as I was coming back from retrieving two condoms from her bathroom (always knock twice) I saw her manually stimulating herself, and her expression of sensuality and openness was another brain explosion. Humina, humina.

I approve of it heartily.
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Old 06-03-2001, 05:29 AM
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Oh my goodness yes!

Yes yes yes!
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Old 06-03-2001, 05:33 AM
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I'm having a hard, um, time thinking of anything more erotic! Except maybe walking in on TWO girls mastubating...

To the shower!!
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Old 06-03-2001, 05:39 AM
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Well, I've seen my best friend get fingered by her boyfriend before (and I've seen her give her boyfriend head before), so it's pretty much given that A: I'm a hardcore voyeur, and B: I'll watch anything if it involves either a penis or a vagina.
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Old 06-03-2001, 10:37 AM
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Uuummmmmm,......yeah.....I'd......watch that......sure.

Especially if she doesn't catch on that I'm watching......
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Old 06-03-2001, 10:53 AM
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SPOOFE, can I hang out with you?
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Old 06-03-2001, 10:59 AM
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There is nothing, nothing quite as sensual and arousing.
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Old 06-03-2001, 11:26 AM
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Originally posted by dpr
I love watching my SO masturbate. It's one of the most erotic and intimate exepriences IMO. Sharing such a private thing with your lover is not only special but highly erotic as it reeks of sexuality and speaks volumes about the person in question.
Aw, Jesus, dpr. I'm never going to be able to read anything she writes without thinking of this post.
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Old 06-03-2001, 01:38 PM
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Yes, very much.

My girfriend also enjoys watching me masturbate.

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Old 06-03-2001, 02:05 PM
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Mmmmmm... girls masturbating.....

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Old 06-03-2001, 02:50 PM
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Oh yeah, we dig it. Because we do it, and if we see you doing it, we know you're interested in sex!!!! That way we know you're not sleeping with us just to make us happy, but because we're good. (We males tend to have fragile egos about such things.)
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Old 06-03-2001, 02:57 PM
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Yeah, it works for me!
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Back when I was giving good phone to a guy I didn't get to see often enough, I once described a plan wherein I'd tie him up up spread eagled on the bed so he was naked and helpless. Then I'd straddle him so I was just out of reach and masturbate where he could see the whole thing, including my face as I brought myself off without an ounce of help from him.

I was given to understand that this was an agonizingly appealing scene for him to think about. Of course, maybe he was just good at giving good phone, too.
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Old 06-03-2001, 04:30 PM
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Cranky, that's twice in five minutes...

...that you've completely blown me away (I just read your thread about the Tommy/Pamela video). Damn.

As for the OP, I personally haven't met a man yet who didn't dig watching.
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Old 06-03-2001, 04:36 PM
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Re: Cranky, that's twice in five minutes...

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As for the OP, I personally haven't met a man yet who didn't dig watching.
Some even request it, even!
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Old 06-03-2001, 04:39 PM
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Talk about masturbating your post count, sheesh.

Sure I dig it...

but it's more fun after a joint!

oh yeah, and some Valium too ::gives morrisons the thumbs up::

Ok, this thread is a buncha guys? ::shudder:: So...um, ladies what do you think about the reverse situation?

::waddling away::
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Old 06-03-2001, 04:50 PM
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To CrankyAsAnOldMan Oh my god...that's so incredibly awesome....*thinking of ways to incorporate similiar situations into my life*

Oh, yeah, and Silo that would totally depend. I'd probably be amused or initially disgusted (depending on who it was and where!)...and then interested.

Tuckerfan, you said...."We males tend to have fragile egos about such things." Oh, like, what? Girls don't? Geez...
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Old 06-03-2001, 04:55 PM
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Ok, this thread is a buncha guys? ::shudder:: So...um, ladies what do you think about the reverse situation?
Sometimes there's requests for that too. I'm an exhibitionist and a voyeur.

Oh, and many things are more fun after a joint.
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Old 06-03-2001, 05:07 PM
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To the OP: Yes. Yes they do.

And the reverse? Yes indeedly. In my mind: Doing himself and looking at me while I put on a little show. He's getting himself off while looking at me. The man is so turned on merely by watching me he has to touch himself. Therefore, I am officially a goddess. My ego is fed and I'm ready to go.

Was that TMI?

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Old 06-03-2001, 05:13 PM
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Oh, and many things are more fun after a joint.
Indeed! =o)
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Old 06-03-2001, 05:21 PM
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Fran, you are indeed a goddess. *applauds madly*
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Old 06-03-2001, 07:46 PM
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Cranky....we have to hang out sometime


I did the same thing during a phone session. He was trying to resist me so I told him I was going to lay on his bed,run my hands slowly down my body and start touching myself.

Didn't take long to get him to play after that hehehehehhehehe.
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Old 06-03-2001, 07:54 PM
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Some even request it, even!
Yep, they do!

However, in my personal experience (others may have had different experiences, of course), many men don't request it, because they're afraid the woman will think they're pervs or something. BUT, that look on their faces when the woman says something along the lines of "hey, wanna watch me?" (You know, that "ohmygodshesgonnaletmewatchshesgonnaLETMEWATCHWOOOOOOOOOOOOO!" look) is priceless. Just priceless.
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Old 06-03-2001, 07:59 PM
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Persephone - that's exactly it. I'd buy you a drink if we lived on the same continent .

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Old 06-03-2001, 08:03 PM
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In a word, yes.

My SO loves to show off, and I like to watch, so everyone in our household is happy.
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Old 06-03-2001, 08:11 PM
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Oh yes, this guy really digs it.

The following will possibly imply more than you'd like to know:
Anyone else seen those video clips of girls using a sybian masturbation machine?
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Old 06-03-2001, 08:36 PM
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Persephone, we have so got to do lunch one of these days.
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Old 06-03-2001, 08:51 PM
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Persephone, we have so got to do lunch one of these days.
How about Arden R, Perse, Cranky, Hardygrrl and I all "do lunch" and you can all use me to share with each other your special techniques and tips!!!
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Old 06-03-2001, 09:05 PM
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What I'd like to know is do they dig it DURING sex?
I have a hard time coming the usual route, because there never seems to be enough pressure or time spent or put in the right place. However, during the act I do what Uncle Bill's girl did/does and 'help out' while he's working. I'm telling you girls, the results are AMAZING! It doesn't seem to have the same effect without the uh..um...oh... you know...the teamwork part.
I've only had one complaint, and it was the guy was kinda freaked I guess that he couldn't do it all on his own. So guys, I'm asking you, do you really dig that or was this one guy the only one brave enough to comment on it?
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Old 06-03-2001, 09:16 PM
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Miss Creant, I dunno about other guys, but I'd probably dig it. Like the man said, "Whatever it takes to get you off, baby." (Though you might wanna say something to the guy before you do the nasty to indicate that you like playing with yourself during sex. If that doesn't turn him on, you're probably better off without him.
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Old 06-03-2001, 09:19 PM
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What I'd like to know is do they dig it DURING sex?

You might as well help, cause your probably not gonna be able to rely on ME!!
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Old 06-03-2001, 09:27 PM
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Tuckerfan, you said...."We males tend to have fragile egos about such things." Oh, like, what? Girls don't? Geez...

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Like Henry Rollins says, "If a man didn't have an orgasm everytime he had sex, he wouldn't be content to say he enjoyed the intimacy of the moment. He'd be tearing around around wreaking havok until somebody clubbed him."
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What I'd like to know is do they dig it DURING sex?

You might as well help, cause your probably not gonna be able to rely on ME!!
It's probably all the tequila I drank last night, but I swear to God, I have no idea what that is supposed to mean.
Anyone?
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Old 06-03-2001, 09:32 PM
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Miss Creant, I dunno about other guys, but I'd probably dig it. Like the man said, "Whatever it takes to get you off, baby." (Though you might wanna say something to the guy before you do the nasty to indicate that you like playing with yourself during sex. If that doesn't turn him on, you're probably better off without him.
Just for the record, I'm not playing around down there the whole time. Only until I absolutly can't wait a second longer.
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Old 06-03-2001, 09:38 PM
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To answer the OP from my own point of view:


Nope!

Well, not me, anyway.
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Old 06-03-2001, 09:38 PM
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Girls and Masturbation: Do Guys Really Dig It?

And the winner of the "Stupidest Question of 2001, Even for MPSIMS," is ...
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Miss Creant, I dunno about other guys, but I'd probably dig it. Like the man said, "Whatever it takes to get you off, baby." (Though you might wanna say something to the guy before you do the nasty to indicate that you like playing with yourself during sex. If that doesn't turn him on, you're probably better off without him.
Just for the record, I'm not playing around down there the whole time. Only until I absolutly can't wait a second longer.
Doesn't matter. If a woman I was about to be intimate with for the first time looked at me kind of coyly and said in a babyish voice said that she liked to play with herself during sex, I'd probably propose to her on the spot. Once had a girlfriend who could only orgasm in certain sexual positions, and I can tell you it got me really excited when she said it. If a guy's really interested in you, then he's not going to care what it takes to get you off, so long as you do get off. Unless, of course, its something really weird like making him dress up in your nightie while wearing golf shoes, then you'd probably freak a number of guys out.
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Old 06-03-2001, 09:49 PM
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Most girls would rather not walk in on their guys as far as I can tell. What do you think? [/B]
Well, I'm not dating anyone, so I won't comment on the boyfriend thing but...it'd be much worse to walk in on a girl friend doing that than a guy friend. Nothing against any of the girls I'm friends with, but eek, how embarassing would that be? Maybe because girls don't talk about it with their girl friends as often? I mean, I'd assume just about all the guys did it from things they've said...oh hell, I can't really explain it, it'd just be worse to walk in on another girl.
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Old 06-03-2001, 09:59 PM
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To answer the OP from my own point of view:


Nope!

Well, not me, anyway.
No?

As in 'No, I don't want to see that' or 'No, I don't mind watching?'?
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Ok, this thread is a buncha guys? ::shudder:: So...um, ladies what do you think about the reverse situation?
::waddling away::
Not only do "Enjoy" Masturbating for, and with, my SO (when I have one) I also, very MUCH so enjoy watching my SO masturbating. Whether it be while I sit back on the sofa and watch him lying in bed, masturbating, for me... I enjoy observing the different expressions of pleasure on his face, with different techniques & manipulations, it's a stunning visual, if you are really into seeing what makes your man tick. (Or wank)

Or if it's watching/knowing he is masturbating while we are having a sexcapade... definately lets me know how aroused he is, if he's so hot that he has to give it a wank while he can't reach my body. And seeing that type of arousal... is definately a turn on. *Yum*

Just my girly point of view.

Catching a guy wanking solo would be a different story. Not so much of a turn on to me. I'd much prefer he come get me and say - I feel like having a wank, will you come watch? Give me some inspiration? *wink wink*
Much more appealing that catching him with his pants down.

::Runs off to find a yummy goth boi who has a webcam, and the compulsive urge to wank. heh.::
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Elfkin477...sometimes I wish I hung out with friends like yours.


I got an email today confirming that one of my best friends was using two of the birthday gifts she received..

A multi-speed vibrator

A life size cardboard cutout of Chris Jericho.


Hopefully not at the same time but I wouldn't put it past her ::shudders::


And I'm the freak because I have phone sex. Great phone sex.
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And I'm the freak because I have phone sex. Great phone sex.
I've been called a freak for that too. Allbeit, I did not pay for this phonesex, but nonetheless it was always fabulous! So - you aren't alone in the freak kingdom. heh.
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No?

As in 'No, I don't want to see that' or 'No, I don't mind watching?'?
No, I don't want to see that... I mean, if the question is, "Would you want to watch a woman masturbate?" my answer is nope, I wouldn't. To me, that's no fun.

Participating, however, is.

So if I was gonna watch and THEN have fun, I suppose I could put up with it...
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Whammo- How about Arden R, Perse, Cranky, Hardygrrl and I all "do lunch" and you can all use me to share with each other your special techniques and tips!!!

Can I come? It's my post....


quote: Milossarian-
Girls and Masturbation: Do Guys Really Dig It?
And the winner of the "Stupidest Question of 2001, Even for MPSIMS," is ...


Excuse me Milo, but the reply above it was a NO! So not everyone is into it....
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I'm posting to this thread for the sole purpose of allowing Anniz to see her name in it the next time she does a name-search for herself.

I, alas, have very little anecdotal evidence to report on.
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oh montfort.. I think your sig answers for you. *LOL*
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